Milestone birthdays get booked late and planned in a panic, which is how so many of them end up in a hotel banquet hall with a buffet. You can do better in an evening of planning if you decide the format first.

Pick a format, then a venue

• Rooftop dinner: 12–30 people, a set menu, fairy lights, a playlist. The easiest one to pull off well.
• Private screening: a small theatre, the birthday person’s favourite film, popcorn and a cake in the interval.
• Brunch takeover: a café on a Sunday morning, bottomless coffee, done by 2pm.
• Game night: a board-game café or a bowling alley with a reserved lane block.
• Themed decade party: dress as the year they were born; the venue needs a dance floor and very little else.

Things people forget

• A speech slot. Give it a time, or it happens at the worst possible moment.
• A photo corner with decent light. Phone photos in a dark bar look like a dark bar.
• One non-alcoholic signature drink, so nobody feels left out.
• Transport home. Share the address and a late-night cab plan with the invite.

The best milestone parties are a little smaller than the first guest list. Cut it by a third and everyone gets to talk to the person they came for.

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